Domestic Violence
Going through domestic violence at the age of 17 or at any age isn’t easy it’s heart breaking. I say this because I went through this many times with my baby’s dad. Many guys do this because most of the time they think that they have the right to treat you bad just because you live with them. Guys make themselves believe that you as there wife belong to them and what they say has to be done no matter what if you don’t follow what they say they get mad and blame you for how they treat you. At the age of 17 I was 7 months pregnant when I went through this it happened the 5 of July. For the 4 of July my mom had invited us to go to Grand Junction to this lake called “La Loma” it’s a really pretty place there are tables and a lot of trees everything you see around there is green. There is a place where you go to rent yet skies.
I really wanted to go and so did he but at the end my mom was already outside and he was saying that we weren’t going to go and that’s when I said “You might not be going because I am” he didn’t say anything but when was walking out the door he wasn’t letting me leave because I was wearin shorts that were according to him to short since he wasn’t letting me leave I went back and changed he also got mad because I had a bag with me he told me to leave it but I didn’t listen to him and I took my bag and left.
When we got there we all had a lot of fun we went swimming the water was clean and warm everything was sand and it was really hot. When we were on our way back we saw the fireworks everywhere and you can hear when they were going on in all different places. When we were on our way back my parents drop me off I was coming up the stairs when he was with the neighbor and his cousin drinking outside I didn’t say anything I walked up when he asked me if I could make him dinner because he was hungry and so I did. I came inside and took a shower I was full of sand and I was went because I was wearing my bathing suit underneath.
When they came in I was sitting on the couch watching TV it was around 11 when I went to sleep. It was 4 in the morning and he told me to get up to make his lunch I was mad and I didn’t get up he went to take a shower when he got out he was mad I was ignoring him. When I felt him close he took the blanket away and then he pulled my hair and he smacked me 2 times I was just screaming to him to stop I was crying and he wouldn’t stop I wanted him to stop hitting me so I got up thinking he would stop well he did. He was mad and he was just looking at me but before that he told me that if I wanted to live with him it was going to be under his rules or else to get the fuck out the last thing I said was ok I am leaving don’t worry about that I guess he thought I just said it well that day he took my cellphone with him I didn’t have a way to call my mom or anyone and I went to my neighbor’s house and I asked her for her cellphone and she let me borrow it.
I called my mom and told her to come to pick me up I didn’t want to tell her that he hit me in front of the lady so I told her I was having pain. After that she came all my things were packed when she got here and then my mom told me that my sister was in jail because she missed a court and she was in eagle we went and got her out. When I got home everything was normal I felt really bad. It was around 5 or 6 when the phone rang it was him he just called and said where I was at then after that he told me if I hadn’t gotten anything but he just said that because he was making fun of me because I had packed everything and didn’t leave
nothing. But my life wasn’t over at that time.
It’s crazy how girls tolerate that kind of behavior from their partners. "It is estimated that 2 million to 4 million US women are assaulted by a domestic partner every year. Twelve million women (25% of the female population) will be abused in their lifetime. Up to 35% of women and 22% of men presenting to the emergency department have experienced domestic violence." Men go through this to because there are girls out there that do defend themselves like that because that’s how they were tough by family. For example my mom can be nice but in my parents relationship there had been a lot of domestic violence in the past when. I was a baby my dad when to jail but my mom didn’t call the police on him the neighbors did. I think that girls don’t have the courage to call the police on their partners because they say they love that man they are with but instead of showing your love think about their love first mostly because of the way you get treated in my opinion that’s not love if your partner doesn’t treat you right then he doesn’t love you.
In my case sometimes I think that my partner doesn’t love me and he is just afraid of being alone or he just needs someone to be with. Many time I thought that because of the way I was getting treated my him and many times I was about to call the police on him but I couldn’t do that to him or his family and that was because I did care about him but he didn’t. it doesn’t matter how many times he says he is sorry because sorry doesn’t take the times that he hit you away I think sorry is just a word that they use to get out of problems they don’t know how it affects you emotionally and physically because if they did care at least a little they wouldn’t have done it in the first place.
Domestic violence is like a scar that will never go away and you will never be able to let go of that no matter how many times they say sorry. Sorry doesn’t count in this situation. Many people that go through domestic violence may be going through this things Seem afraid or anxious to please their partner. These are some of the symptoms that people have when they go through domestic violence some women are afraid or anxious to please their partner of how afraid they are they call their partner
every movement of the day that they make and they have to do as there partner says. I think that’s not fair because you should be able to be free and move and
go out it’s not like if he is your mom to ask for permission I would feel like if I would be in a jail if I had to report every step I made. Some women even defend what there husband does to them they use the excuse that they had an accident or got hit with something but they never say that they got hit by their partner.
I would have gotten help of I could have called the police on this person that hit me because to person either being a women or a man should be going through the abuse of their partner. Women that have gotten hit don’t show that much skin so people won’t ask what happen or don’t go in public at all they get separate from
their loved ones like family and friends most of the they are depressed or have very low self-esteem even when if before they were really confident, some don’t get there needs they don’t get to work or buy things for themselves they have limited access to money, credit cards or the car. I think that’s not fair it should be good that a women works that way she can help out her parent and it’s like I said they want you to be in jail because they are afraid that you will leave them and be worth something in life.
These men have to be in jail because they are not safe people to be around they are possessive and unfair and
jealous they have no security for themselves. A way to prevent domestic violence is by not provoking your partner if he doesn’t like something and you do it then that’s going to get him to hit you and that might be your fault for provoking it even when no one has the right to lay a hand on you to avoid the hitting you can express concern, listen and validate and support his or her decisions but when you don’t agree then that’s not your fault those are just things that you just don’t agree on or don’t like. It’s hard to have a good communication with a person that has and anger temper.
In my opinion you shouldn’t tolerate that. If he hits you one he will always hit you because it’s a cycle that you will live with all your life if you are with that person sometimes you might not be with that person but that person will still make your life hell I think it’s harder when you have kids because he might want to see them but you don’t want to see him and its more complicated. If that’s the case that you have kids you come to an agreement with the court house where ever you live that way if he goes to visit he may not take your kids out of the country or away from you he might try to but he won’t get away with it. There
are many hotlines to help the people that don’t have the courage to call the police on their partner they can get help and the people that they talk to can help you to get the security. That can change when they start trusting themselves and that can help them to trust there partner. Many times when your partner is like this it’s because he might of lived it himself and that’s where he learn to be like that he comes from an abusive family or his own parents
might have been like that so he was tough that it’s okay to be the way he is but in really life it’s not.
Laws for domestic violence in Texas are taken more serious than the ones in Colorado. Texas judges change you with additional fines, loss of several
rights, arrest and changed with a felony, they can call it domestic violence when you hit a person or threaten a person with anything like a gun or
just raising you hand on a person. A “police officer can arrest you on the spot without actually witnessing
the incident” all that you need is to have evidence or someone who has witness it that way the police really has a reason to arrest that person that harm you. When this person has his or her court the judge will give you a protection order that’s so when this person gets out he can’t hurt you anymore it’s more like a safe restraining
order against that person that harm you this person may not go home right after he gets out of jail this person will have to call the police and tell them that
they have to get there belonging the police will be in charge of going to the home with you and you may not have contact with the other person.
In Texas you can be charge with a year in jail because it’s a class b misdemeanor if you have a record of domestic violence than you will get change with a third-degree felony and that will make you get from 2 years to 10 years in jail or a sentence of life. It’s really not worth for anyone to do this to another person why would
you put someone in this place what would make you want to harm yourself and your family this way if you ask me it’s not worth the time. I would say get
help before you commit a crime because in Texas or in any place this is not acceptable. In India the laws for Domestic violence are extremely different.
(Mytexasdefenselawyer)
In India a man has no right, he has to do as his wife tells him to or else he will get in trouble. If a women were to accuse his male partner for domestic violence
he will have a restraining order and if he doesn’t fallow that rule he will be in prison for a year if the problems end up being bigger than he will have to
pay a fee of 20,000 dollars. This goes for couple that are married and to those who are just boyfriend and girlfriends. This is what they see as to why the women should accuse the man, if the man harms or injures or endangers the health, safety, life, limb or wellbeing, whether mental or physical, of the aggrieved person (woman) or tends to do so and includes causing physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal and emotional abuse and economic abuse; or harasses, harms, injures or endangers the aggrieved
person (woman) with a view to coerce her or any other person related to her to meet any unlawful demands for any dowry or other property or valuable security;
or has the effect of threatening the aggrieved person (woman) or any person related to her by any conduct mentioned in clause or clause; or otherwise
injures or causes harm, whether physical or mental, to the aggrieved person (woman). The male has no right to complain or to have a choice on what to do or
what to say even if he is the one that is getting harm by his wife he will not get protected at all. If a male partner doesn’t do as what a This is causing men
to get hurt in one year 22,000 men committed suicide because they were in jail and because of the way some were getting treated. I say some because not all hit
or treated there wife bad some of them may lie. In India if a male partner doesn’t satisfy the female than she can accuse him of sexual abuse, anything
that a male does if the female doesn’t like then she can accuse him for anything. I think that wife’s were just taking advantage of this domestic
violence bill because that isn’t fair for the men to give up there life’s that way. I think that it’s sad how women can do that. I also think that this law
should change and it should be able for the men and women to have the same rights so the suicide of the men doesn’t go up. (498a)
In New York City there are no laws for domestic violence. They see domestic violence as assault, rape, menacing, stalking, sex abuse, kidnapping,
harassment, aggravated harassment and murder. There are courts that are specially made for domestic violence cases; there are courts in Manhattan (New
York County), Bronx, Brooklyn, Staten Island, Long Island including Suffolk County and Nassau County. There are two types of courts, there is one for
families that are blood related or that have children involved this is called Criminal and Family Court. The other court is for people that are not related
that have had problems with each other this is called IDV Part C the Integrated Domestic Violence Courtroom.
There are lawyers that work with people that have been punished for domestic violence in New York they will defend you even when they know that you actually committed a crime i think that they do this to get money but I also think that lawyers shouldn’t support people that have committed crimes but I guess it necessary when you
have court, so they can defend your own rights. These are the law in New York for domestic violence. Laws in Colorado for domestic violence are really serious if a police gets the call they go to the home and someone will get arrested for hitting another person they will get jail time and the women will be get help it’s a program
“Mandatory Protection Order against the person charged” this is to help the person that got hit it’s like a restraining order so this won’t
happen again. If the person that got hit gets back with the person that hit her she will get changed with not being loyal to the restraining order the man will
be in jail again and she might have to attend to court or even jail. If women and man are fighting and they both hit each other they will both get arrested
for hitting one another. It’s hard to call the police on the person that you love but if that person hits you or treats you bad
and that person doesn’t love you and he doesn’t deserve your love. The hotline number is 800.621.4673 (HOPE) “If you are being abused, call the hotline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week” and that’s good because it’s available for the entire day and it’s 7 days a week someone cares and they can truly help.
There are also shelters, houses that help you get out of your partners house. There is a shelter home here in Glenwood Spring it has a spot for everything like domestic violence, battered women's, family and they help you be safe they have strike rules. I know this because my cousin was in a safe house when my
uncle hit her mom they left and he went to jail for hitting her in that face house she couldn’t go out and she couldn’t talk on the phone she told me
everything that she didn’t like to be there because she felt isolated from everyone and she didn’t have no one to talk to but when she got out she told me
all about it. (safehorizon)
Domestic violence happen many times between her parents also my uncle would always hit my aunt and she would always get back with him but now he
was another wife who he is nice to he doesn’t hit her maybe because she wouldn’t tolerate that and the relationships are different with every partner you have.
One day I was at her house it was her little sister baptism and they were fighting when I saw that he punched her right in the face and she went down to
the floor my little cousin started crying and my big cousin just went to the floor and got her sister and pulled me down and she was crying also I was about
12 years when this happened and I really wished things would of been different. She wasn’t a good wife either my mom kicked her out of our house once because she just went to insult my grandma that’s why my mom got mad also she was a little crazy if my uncle won’t pay her child support she would go to everyone in
his family and tell them mean things that’s why no one likes her. As you can see I come from a violent family and that’s hard because I even went through that in
my own family with my boyfriend and my baby. In my case I didn’t have the courage to call the police even when his own mom told me to do it because she is
against domestic violence also. (Christina Andrade)
I have gone through domestic violence my whole life I even got physical with my dad because he curse my mom out for no reason I just blew up I know that wasn’t the correct thing to do but my heart was racing it was so fast my chest even hurt and I was sitting on a chair close to the computer and I screamed at him and threw the
key board and then the mouse as I got close to him my aunt pushed me and I hit her in the face my mom was just sitting on the sofa and she wasn’t saying
nothing to him but I graded a soda car and threw it at him he got all wet after that happen I didn’t spoke to my aunt anymore even when we were really close I
started to dislike her she didn’t have the right to hit her and I didn’t have a right to hit her back. Even when that happened she was still there when I needed her. She went to visit me at the hospital when I had my baby, she was there for 15 minutes but she cared about me and my baby.
We are a family no matter what, we will have to see each other in this little world.
Going through domestic violence at the age of 17 or at any age isn’t easy it’s heart breaking. I say this because I went through this many times with my baby’s dad. Many guys do this because most of the time they think that they have the right to treat you bad just because you live with them. Guys make themselves believe that you as there wife belong to them and what they say has to be done no matter what if you don’t follow what they say they get mad and blame you for how they treat you. At the age of 17 I was 7 months pregnant when I went through this it happened the 5 of July. For the 4 of July my mom had invited us to go to Grand Junction to this lake called “La Loma” it’s a really pretty place there are tables and a lot of trees everything you see around there is green. There is a place where you go to rent yet skies.
I really wanted to go and so did he but at the end my mom was already outside and he was saying that we weren’t going to go and that’s when I said “You might not be going because I am” he didn’t say anything but when was walking out the door he wasn’t letting me leave because I was wearin shorts that were according to him to short since he wasn’t letting me leave I went back and changed he also got mad because I had a bag with me he told me to leave it but I didn’t listen to him and I took my bag and left.
When we got there we all had a lot of fun we went swimming the water was clean and warm everything was sand and it was really hot. When we were on our way back we saw the fireworks everywhere and you can hear when they were going on in all different places. When we were on our way back my parents drop me off I was coming up the stairs when he was with the neighbor and his cousin drinking outside I didn’t say anything I walked up when he asked me if I could make him dinner because he was hungry and so I did. I came inside and took a shower I was full of sand and I was went because I was wearing my bathing suit underneath.
When they came in I was sitting on the couch watching TV it was around 11 when I went to sleep. It was 4 in the morning and he told me to get up to make his lunch I was mad and I didn’t get up he went to take a shower when he got out he was mad I was ignoring him. When I felt him close he took the blanket away and then he pulled my hair and he smacked me 2 times I was just screaming to him to stop I was crying and he wouldn’t stop I wanted him to stop hitting me so I got up thinking he would stop well he did. He was mad and he was just looking at me but before that he told me that if I wanted to live with him it was going to be under his rules or else to get the fuck out the last thing I said was ok I am leaving don’t worry about that I guess he thought I just said it well that day he took my cellphone with him I didn’t have a way to call my mom or anyone and I went to my neighbor’s house and I asked her for her cellphone and she let me borrow it.
I called my mom and told her to come to pick me up I didn’t want to tell her that he hit me in front of the lady so I told her I was having pain. After that she came all my things were packed when she got here and then my mom told me that my sister was in jail because she missed a court and she was in eagle we went and got her out. When I got home everything was normal I felt really bad. It was around 5 or 6 when the phone rang it was him he just called and said where I was at then after that he told me if I hadn’t gotten anything but he just said that because he was making fun of me because I had packed everything and didn’t leave
nothing. But my life wasn’t over at that time.
It’s crazy how girls tolerate that kind of behavior from their partners. "It is estimated that 2 million to 4 million US women are assaulted by a domestic partner every year. Twelve million women (25% of the female population) will be abused in their lifetime. Up to 35% of women and 22% of men presenting to the emergency department have experienced domestic violence." Men go through this to because there are girls out there that do defend themselves like that because that’s how they were tough by family. For example my mom can be nice but in my parents relationship there had been a lot of domestic violence in the past when. I was a baby my dad when to jail but my mom didn’t call the police on him the neighbors did. I think that girls don’t have the courage to call the police on their partners because they say they love that man they are with but instead of showing your love think about their love first mostly because of the way you get treated in my opinion that’s not love if your partner doesn’t treat you right then he doesn’t love you.
In my case sometimes I think that my partner doesn’t love me and he is just afraid of being alone or he just needs someone to be with. Many time I thought that because of the way I was getting treated my him and many times I was about to call the police on him but I couldn’t do that to him or his family and that was because I did care about him but he didn’t. it doesn’t matter how many times he says he is sorry because sorry doesn’t take the times that he hit you away I think sorry is just a word that they use to get out of problems they don’t know how it affects you emotionally and physically because if they did care at least a little they wouldn’t have done it in the first place.
Domestic violence is like a scar that will never go away and you will never be able to let go of that no matter how many times they say sorry. Sorry doesn’t count in this situation. Many people that go through domestic violence may be going through this things Seem afraid or anxious to please their partner. These are some of the symptoms that people have when they go through domestic violence some women are afraid or anxious to please their partner of how afraid they are they call their partner
every movement of the day that they make and they have to do as there partner says. I think that’s not fair because you should be able to be free and move and
go out it’s not like if he is your mom to ask for permission I would feel like if I would be in a jail if I had to report every step I made. Some women even defend what there husband does to them they use the excuse that they had an accident or got hit with something but they never say that they got hit by their partner.
I would have gotten help of I could have called the police on this person that hit me because to person either being a women or a man should be going through the abuse of their partner. Women that have gotten hit don’t show that much skin so people won’t ask what happen or don’t go in public at all they get separate from
their loved ones like family and friends most of the they are depressed or have very low self-esteem even when if before they were really confident, some don’t get there needs they don’t get to work or buy things for themselves they have limited access to money, credit cards or the car. I think that’s not fair it should be good that a women works that way she can help out her parent and it’s like I said they want you to be in jail because they are afraid that you will leave them and be worth something in life.
These men have to be in jail because they are not safe people to be around they are possessive and unfair and
jealous they have no security for themselves. A way to prevent domestic violence is by not provoking your partner if he doesn’t like something and you do it then that’s going to get him to hit you and that might be your fault for provoking it even when no one has the right to lay a hand on you to avoid the hitting you can express concern, listen and validate and support his or her decisions but when you don’t agree then that’s not your fault those are just things that you just don’t agree on or don’t like. It’s hard to have a good communication with a person that has and anger temper.
In my opinion you shouldn’t tolerate that. If he hits you one he will always hit you because it’s a cycle that you will live with all your life if you are with that person sometimes you might not be with that person but that person will still make your life hell I think it’s harder when you have kids because he might want to see them but you don’t want to see him and its more complicated. If that’s the case that you have kids you come to an agreement with the court house where ever you live that way if he goes to visit he may not take your kids out of the country or away from you he might try to but he won’t get away with it. There
are many hotlines to help the people that don’t have the courage to call the police on their partner they can get help and the people that they talk to can help you to get the security. That can change when they start trusting themselves and that can help them to trust there partner. Many times when your partner is like this it’s because he might of lived it himself and that’s where he learn to be like that he comes from an abusive family or his own parents
might have been like that so he was tough that it’s okay to be the way he is but in really life it’s not.
Laws for domestic violence in Texas are taken more serious than the ones in Colorado. Texas judges change you with additional fines, loss of several
rights, arrest and changed with a felony, they can call it domestic violence when you hit a person or threaten a person with anything like a gun or
just raising you hand on a person. A “police officer can arrest you on the spot without actually witnessing
the incident” all that you need is to have evidence or someone who has witness it that way the police really has a reason to arrest that person that harm you. When this person has his or her court the judge will give you a protection order that’s so when this person gets out he can’t hurt you anymore it’s more like a safe restraining
order against that person that harm you this person may not go home right after he gets out of jail this person will have to call the police and tell them that
they have to get there belonging the police will be in charge of going to the home with you and you may not have contact with the other person.
In Texas you can be charge with a year in jail because it’s a class b misdemeanor if you have a record of domestic violence than you will get change with a third-degree felony and that will make you get from 2 years to 10 years in jail or a sentence of life. It’s really not worth for anyone to do this to another person why would
you put someone in this place what would make you want to harm yourself and your family this way if you ask me it’s not worth the time. I would say get
help before you commit a crime because in Texas or in any place this is not acceptable. In India the laws for Domestic violence are extremely different.
(Mytexasdefenselawyer)
In India a man has no right, he has to do as his wife tells him to or else he will get in trouble. If a women were to accuse his male partner for domestic violence
he will have a restraining order and if he doesn’t fallow that rule he will be in prison for a year if the problems end up being bigger than he will have to
pay a fee of 20,000 dollars. This goes for couple that are married and to those who are just boyfriend and girlfriends. This is what they see as to why the women should accuse the man, if the man harms or injures or endangers the health, safety, life, limb or wellbeing, whether mental or physical, of the aggrieved person (woman) or tends to do so and includes causing physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal and emotional abuse and economic abuse; or harasses, harms, injures or endangers the aggrieved
person (woman) with a view to coerce her or any other person related to her to meet any unlawful demands for any dowry or other property or valuable security;
or has the effect of threatening the aggrieved person (woman) or any person related to her by any conduct mentioned in clause or clause; or otherwise
injures or causes harm, whether physical or mental, to the aggrieved person (woman). The male has no right to complain or to have a choice on what to do or
what to say even if he is the one that is getting harm by his wife he will not get protected at all. If a male partner doesn’t do as what a This is causing men
to get hurt in one year 22,000 men committed suicide because they were in jail and because of the way some were getting treated. I say some because not all hit
or treated there wife bad some of them may lie. In India if a male partner doesn’t satisfy the female than she can accuse him of sexual abuse, anything
that a male does if the female doesn’t like then she can accuse him for anything. I think that wife’s were just taking advantage of this domestic
violence bill because that isn’t fair for the men to give up there life’s that way. I think that it’s sad how women can do that. I also think that this law
should change and it should be able for the men and women to have the same rights so the suicide of the men doesn’t go up. (498a)
In New York City there are no laws for domestic violence. They see domestic violence as assault, rape, menacing, stalking, sex abuse, kidnapping,
harassment, aggravated harassment and murder. There are courts that are specially made for domestic violence cases; there are courts in Manhattan (New
York County), Bronx, Brooklyn, Staten Island, Long Island including Suffolk County and Nassau County. There are two types of courts, there is one for
families that are blood related or that have children involved this is called Criminal and Family Court. The other court is for people that are not related
that have had problems with each other this is called IDV Part C the Integrated Domestic Violence Courtroom.
There are lawyers that work with people that have been punished for domestic violence in New York they will defend you even when they know that you actually committed a crime i think that they do this to get money but I also think that lawyers shouldn’t support people that have committed crimes but I guess it necessary when you
have court, so they can defend your own rights. These are the law in New York for domestic violence. Laws in Colorado for domestic violence are really serious if a police gets the call they go to the home and someone will get arrested for hitting another person they will get jail time and the women will be get help it’s a program
“Mandatory Protection Order against the person charged” this is to help the person that got hit it’s like a restraining order so this won’t
happen again. If the person that got hit gets back with the person that hit her she will get changed with not being loyal to the restraining order the man will
be in jail again and she might have to attend to court or even jail. If women and man are fighting and they both hit each other they will both get arrested
for hitting one another. It’s hard to call the police on the person that you love but if that person hits you or treats you bad
and that person doesn’t love you and he doesn’t deserve your love. The hotline number is 800.621.4673 (HOPE) “If you are being abused, call the hotline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week” and that’s good because it’s available for the entire day and it’s 7 days a week someone cares and they can truly help.
There are also shelters, houses that help you get out of your partners house. There is a shelter home here in Glenwood Spring it has a spot for everything like domestic violence, battered women's, family and they help you be safe they have strike rules. I know this because my cousin was in a safe house when my
uncle hit her mom they left and he went to jail for hitting her in that face house she couldn’t go out and she couldn’t talk on the phone she told me
everything that she didn’t like to be there because she felt isolated from everyone and she didn’t have no one to talk to but when she got out she told me
all about it. (safehorizon)
Domestic violence happen many times between her parents also my uncle would always hit my aunt and she would always get back with him but now he
was another wife who he is nice to he doesn’t hit her maybe because she wouldn’t tolerate that and the relationships are different with every partner you have.
One day I was at her house it was her little sister baptism and they were fighting when I saw that he punched her right in the face and she went down to
the floor my little cousin started crying and my big cousin just went to the floor and got her sister and pulled me down and she was crying also I was about
12 years when this happened and I really wished things would of been different. She wasn’t a good wife either my mom kicked her out of our house once because she just went to insult my grandma that’s why my mom got mad also she was a little crazy if my uncle won’t pay her child support she would go to everyone in
his family and tell them mean things that’s why no one likes her. As you can see I come from a violent family and that’s hard because I even went through that in
my own family with my boyfriend and my baby. In my case I didn’t have the courage to call the police even when his own mom told me to do it because she is
against domestic violence also. (Christina Andrade)
I have gone through domestic violence my whole life I even got physical with my dad because he curse my mom out for no reason I just blew up I know that wasn’t the correct thing to do but my heart was racing it was so fast my chest even hurt and I was sitting on a chair close to the computer and I screamed at him and threw the
key board and then the mouse as I got close to him my aunt pushed me and I hit her in the face my mom was just sitting on the sofa and she wasn’t saying
nothing to him but I graded a soda car and threw it at him he got all wet after that happen I didn’t spoke to my aunt anymore even when we were really close I
started to dislike her she didn’t have the right to hit her and I didn’t have a right to hit her back. Even when that happened she was still there when I needed her. She went to visit me at the hospital when I had my baby, she was there for 15 minutes but she cared about me and my baby.
We are a family no matter what, we will have to see each other in this little world.